(OH, BUT I'M SO VERY SICKENED NOW.)

My main philosophy has always been to live life to it's fullest, and never with the priority of the avoidance of pain.

But if I could take her pain, I would.

What good am I as a friend if I cannot even give her hope?

How can I tell her that she should give him up and move on, when I have not? I am not going to resort to hypocrisy. All I can offer is a hug, and a sound, "Don't tell him you cut yourself. It's tempting to make him know how vulnerable he's left you, but trust me, you'll feel stupid later."

Some advice.

Some friend.